Getting Started Dating

In a dating game what is most important is being noticed. The first step to getting a date is actually getting noticed by someone!

Following are a few tips that will be useful to you in a dating scene.

• Always carry a smile

They say "smile and it increases your face value". Basically everyone is typically attracted to someone who makes them feel good about themselves, or who helps them forget the tensions of life, even if it is for a small time. A smile is an excellent icebreaker, and when given to people you'd like to talk to, it makes an excellent approach and your work is half done.

• Take time to look great

Believe it or not but looks do matter a lot in dating game. Thus if you wanna get noticed and be the centre of attraction you must spend some time on yourself to look your best. . Use this to your advantage and wear flattering clothes, colours and hairstyles.

• Make eye contact

Eye contact can be a very powerful unspoken communication. It can give lots of unspoken signals that will make your goal easier. Thus if you use this tool properly, you can create a sense of appeal, mystery and allure.

• Use your sense of humour

Sense of humour is something that will make you stand out and be noticed everywhere. Laughter makes people forget about their tensions and problems. If you can do that, you'll not only stand out, but you'll leave a lasting impression.

• Look good and feel good

What is the most important thing that is required is self-confidence and appearance. People very often jump to conclusions as to whether you are, or aren't their type by how you are dressed and on your overall appearance. Thus to succeed in your conquest you should definitely be dressed neatly and appropriately and also walk with an air of confidence in you. Without confidence, you are more likely to make a fool out of yourself than start a relationship.

• Starting a conversation

Once you mark your target the next step is to talk to him. One approach in selecting a conversation starter is to look at the person minutely and find something interesting about him, and then comment or ask him about it. When doing this, try to find out the type of person he is. Is he an extrovert or introvert, what does he do mostly; if alone in the room what catches his interest, etc. When you do go and talk to him, try to be as original as possible and choose a topic that you have some knowledge and/or interest in. If you are asked something about which you have no knowledge at all be frank enough to tell him that and don't make a fool of yourself by bluffing your way through. This is where confidence also plays a huge part.

• Be yourself

This is most important. Try to be yourself and don't ape anyone or be someone who you really are not. Don't try to impress him by being something you are not, or by showing him something you think he wants to see. Show him your true self. The strongest and deepest bonds are built upon honesty and truth. Don't try to fool anyone 'coz sooner or later he will find out and that will not be a good thing.